Bless me, even me also, o my father. Genesis 27:34b (KJV)
Have you seen people that seem to hate to see others succeed? No matter how well a person is doing, they are able to point out something that could have been done just a little bit better.
As I read in Genesis 27 about the account of Jacob stealing ,his brother, Esau’s blessing, I thought about how powerful that one blessing of the father was at that time. It was not just a bunch of words causally spoken but the words Isaac spoke carried great weight. His words set the course of a whole generation of people lives.
An Irrevocable Blessing
His blessing was irrevocable. A human man’s word could not be retracted. Now if Isaac a mere man’s blessing had that much power, how much more substantial are the words that God has decreed about us.
Jacob obtained the blessing through trickery (albeit it had already been declared to be his by God). When Esau heard this he asked,
Haven’t you reserved any blessing for me? Genesis 27:36b
In essence he was asking what about me. Is there not a portion for me? Have you ever found yourself asking God a similar question? You look around at those around you who appear to be enjoying fruitful seasons and wonder what about me Lord. Maybe you haven’t but I have.
Do you have only one blessing, my father? Bless me too, my father. Then Esau wept aloud. Gen 27: 38b (NIV)
As I think about this event in Isaac, Jacob, and Esau’s lives, I am reminded not only of the power of the Father’s blessing but of the unlimited supply available. Your blessing doesn’t impede mine. My fruitfulness does not hamper your ability to be productive. If we govern ourselves according to the pattern of the word, it will have us competing against one another rather than celebrating each other.
Weep No More
Are you weeping inwardly over someone else’s blessing – their marriage, their job promotion, their svelte figure, their blogging numbers? Don’t allow the green eyed monster of jealousy to steal your ability to see the blessing that is available to you. There is Rehoboth for you. God has room enough for you and me.
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faithlounge139 says
We serve a God whose blessings are new every morning.
As Sisters and Brothers in Christ, as we are perfecting our love walk, we should rejoice for those who celebrate success, just as we would for our blood brothers and sisters.
It is a habit that we always thank God when He blesses us – we should also thank Him for blessing others, knowing that He hasn’t forgotten us – our time will come!!
Great food for thought, Wanda, thank you.
Wanda says
You’re absolutely correct that we should be rejoicing Carol. However, I think if we are honest at times that’s not the true posture of our heart. I know I have had times where I felt oh good for them Lord but what about me. Every time I say that phrase, I think of Joyce Meyer’s saying what about me, what about me.
susie swanson says
Some people are so jealous of others that they can’t find any happiness in their own life.. This is a great post.. I always love your posts.. so uplifting.. I wish I had the time to visit you more often.. Susie
Wanda says
Thank you for the kind words Susie! I wish I had more time to visit others around the blogosphere as well. Come when you can. You’re always welcome. Blessings to you.
Carol says
Great post! Very thought provoking. What a gracious and mighty God we serve! keep up the great work!
Wanda says
Yes, He is Carol. I actually woke up this morning with this song in my mind about Our God is Mighty!
Emmah says
Awesome..Awesome….God is so rich…we need to know that he has so much for each one of us. More so…a scarcity mentality only shows how selfish we can be, because we are looking at our capacity and not Gods abundant provision… I like the post…always love reading your blog
Wanda says
Oh Emmah, you used the exact word that came to my spirit just the other day…scarcity. It’s that mentality that breeds a poverty mindset. As long as I believe that there isn’t enough, it is hard to truly allow oneself to be a conduit of God’s blessings. Poverty is not just about finances but it encompasses all areas of our life. God’s been reminding me lately that whatever I have obtained, I can get again if I need it. My shelves are overflowing with books that I’ve been fearful of letting go because I assume I might need them one day.
Susan Wachtel says
Wanda,
Thanks for sharing some perspective on blessings. As I read your blog, it brought to mind that when I trust God and His timing to bless me, and trust God even when He seems to be silent, then I am able to celebrate other’s blessings.
Wanda says
Hi Susan, I think you are right. Only when truly trust God to give us what we need can we really celebrate what He is doing in the lives of our sisters and brothers.
Tracy says
Hi Wanda – so very true! We should be happy when we see others prosper or be promoted and trust that God will do the same for us when He knows the time is right.
God bless
Tracy
Wanda says
Amen Tracy.
yvonne lewis says
Jealously plays a big part, with success. one has to work at it to get where they want to get , It won’t come to you whilst sitting down thinking about it.
Loved the read Wanda,
Yvonne.
Wanda says
You made a great point Yvonne. We can’t expect success absent of a willingness to work.
Kim @ Stuff could.... says
Yes I know people who seem to be negative about others success….This post is so thought provoking. I need to watch my words, even more!
ps. Like your new blog look
Wanda says
Thanks Kim, I actually did the move to WordPress and design myself. I’m so excited…lol. I’m making it my aim this year to be a better steward of my words.
Joanne Sher says
Super reminder, Wanda. I just read this passage this morning. His blessings are unlimited.
Wanda says
Are you doing the read through the Bible in chronological order plan too?
Sharon says
Such a GREAT word today, Wanda. Yes, I’ve had those *green-eyed glasses* on sometimes myself. Hate to admit that, but it’s true. I have wrestled and grappled with many of the issues you have discussed here. (Maybe I have a little bit of *Jacob* in me?!)
I just love how you ended this – God has room enough for you and me. Yes, that is ALL that should matter – that the Kingdom of God is being advanced, and His Good News is reaching many.
GOD BLESS!
(p.s. love the changes!)
Wanda says
If we’re honest, I would dare to say that we have all wore those shades at some time in our life.
Blue Cotton Memory says
“Bless me, even so, my Father” – that cry for blessing, to know we are loved and valued, I think is something we all have. Understanding that God created a plan (Psalm 139) means we have to understand the gifts God placed in us, our individuality – and because of that uniqueness, He blesses us in ways that help fulfill those plans, build those gifts. What a great post for the New Year! I always need to be reminded to keep focused on God’s plan for my life, not God’s plan for my peers life!
JBR says
I know God does not play favorites, but yes it is hard sometimes to see others have what I have been striving for. But, I have to go on faith, that my God will supply what I really need. Thank you Wanda for sharing. Blessings.
Wanda says
When we’re in the midst of hard times it can be hard JBR. During those times I think it’s essential that fill ourselves up with the word and reflect back upon his faithfulness in our own lives.
Alida says
Such a great word for me today, Wanda. I keep telling myself that life is not a competition but sometimes I need a reminder. So grateful that His supply of blessings is unlimited!
joy and blessings,
Alida
Wanda says
I do understand Alida. Sometimes it’s hard to just stay in our own lanes without thinking we should be moving along at the pace of our brothers & sisters.
Hanna says
Everyone should take care of their life. It’s the most precious gift that God has given us.