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When Loving You is Wrong

By Wanda

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I remember the lyrics of song that said if loving you is wrong, I don’t want to be right. Kind  of sounds like a song a hopeless (or should a say reckless) romantic might sing. I have had my own encounter of loving when it was wrong. And wouldn’t you know I found myself in the Word of God as I read I Kings 11. My sneaky suspicion was confirmed that I was not the only one to find themselves on the wrong side of love.
Solomon-the wisest person in the world and a king no doubt-found himself in a precarious position. He had a thing for foreign women. Even after receiving clear instructions to avoid them.

The LORD had clearly instructed his people not to intermarry with those nations, because the women they married would lead them to worship their gods. I Kings 11:2a

Solomon was a man well versed in God’s Word and man full of wisdom.

Yet Solomon insisted on loving them anyway. I Kings 11:2b

I guess he wasn’t willing to give them up so he could be right. Some how he consider them worth the cost of being wrong.
Stay tuned as I explore the cost he paid for loving when it’s wrong.

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  1. welcome to my world of poetry says

    16 June, 2011 at 12:36 pm

    Thought provoking, Wanda.

    Have a nice day,
    Yvonne,

  2. Missie says

    16 June, 2011 at 1:24 pm

    So true.

  3. Joanne Sher says

    16 June, 2011 at 2:20 pm

    Sin is a CHOICE – we like to think it's forced on us by culture, but it isn't. Great reminder – looking forward to further posts.

  4. Pam says

    16 June, 2011 at 4:33 pm

    Great post, Wanda, and so true. No matter how appealing the wrong choice is, if we can just hide behind God's Word He will help us make the right choice.

  5. Shanda says

    16 June, 2011 at 6:12 pm

    Very interesting post. I cannot wait for the next to read what you have to say. I have loved wrongly in my life too!

  6. Lisa says

    16 June, 2011 at 8:13 pm

    This struck me with Solomon too. He was the wisest man, yet he chose to ignore God's word and married many foreign women. I look forward to the rest of your thoughts on this subject.

  7. David C Brown says

    17 June, 2011 at 6:17 pm

    If we love Christ first and best the rest will fall into place.

  8. Ella says

    19 June, 2011 at 4:33 am

    I look forward to your next post! Why do we want what we can't or shouldn't have…for me chocolate, lol~

  9. Diana Dart says

    20 June, 2011 at 11:44 am

    Intriguing thoughts. Looking forward to digging in deeper with future posts!

  10. Kim @ Stuff could... says

    20 June, 2011 at 2:28 pm

    I remember that silly love song. Solomon will be interesting.

  11. Sharon says

    20 June, 2011 at 11:59 pm

    Wanda, me too. I was also once on the wrong side of love – as a grown woman who should have known better.

    Can't wait for more on this interesting topic…

    GOD BLESS!

  12. Just Be Real says

    21 June, 2011 at 10:50 am

    Appreciate you sharing. Wanda, thank you for your recent prayers. Blessings.

  13. lioneagle says

    21 June, 2011 at 12:40 pm

    Hi Wanda –

    For sure, you parked on my street with this post. More than once, I loved wrong. Praise be to our Lord that now I love right – GOD first.

    May He help us all to steadfastly do that. Everything AND everyone must be AFTER GOD!

    Thank you, Wanda, for this post.

    Note: Yes, I remember that song. Yesterday, our Lord put Marvin Gaye's and James Brown's music on my mind. Back in the day, they were two of my favorites.

  14. Sharon - inspiring stories says

    21 June, 2011 at 3:13 pm

    Sounds like an interesting topic and one that really needs to be addressed. I'll be back to read more.

    I just wanted to let you know that I have posted the details for my signed book giveaway later this week and you can start accumulating chances (opportunities!) today.

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  15. Alida says

    21 June, 2011 at 8:55 pm

    What a great post! Our counseling office is visited each week by people, mostly women, who have loved wrong. It keeps me on my knees praying for this country.

  16. Connie Arnold says

    21 June, 2011 at 9:05 pm

    Interesting post, Wanda. No matter how wise a person is, temptation is there and often hard to resist. Sometimes love can truly make you blind to what is right.

  17. Wanda says

    22 June, 2011 at 2:27 am

    Appreciate each of you chiming in on this topic. I think many of us have had the experience of being on the wrong side of love. Hope to pick up with this topic soon; I have been a bit frazzled lately. Blessings to each of you.

  18. Dawn M. Hamsher says

    29 June, 2011 at 12:36 am

    Wow…talk about a topic!

    Been there. Thank goodness I learned from my mistake. Second time around I let God choose my husband.

    Now, I talk to my 11 year old about what to look for in a future husband (it is never too early) and that she needs ask for God's guidance. I hope she learns from my 1st mistake.

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